Junior High is tough. I don't know about you, but for me, it was a mine field and I managed to step on most of them! Thinking back on it though from this side is a LOT of fun!
In 1971, I got bussed to the other side of town with a bunch of kids from many schools to Bartlett Junior High. I was extremely self conscious. Been there? ;) Most of the kids in BJH had been together in school somewhere their entire lives, I was the outsider and often the punch line in Junior High jokes and railings. I failed miserbably to fit in. So...I tried to be... invisible! I was a failure there too.
During the summer between 6th and 7th grades I grew pretty much to my full 5 feet and 9 and 1/2 inches (about 174) and filled in a size 9 shoe. I weighed less than 90 lbs. (There are photos that prove it!) My picture could have been placed in the dictionary next to the definition of "gawky" or as Mike so lovingly said after perusing the photos, on the cover of MAD magazine. :)
definition of gawky
gawky (gô′kē)
adjective gawkier gawk′i·er, gawkiest gawk′i·est
awkward or ungainly, often specifically from being disproportionately tall
Eventually I got granny wire-rimmed glasses, a pageboy haircut and a head gear to boot. But that's not all, in my Junior High of 2000 students, everyone knew who I was because I was the skinny girl in the dress and the knee socks!

Well, the headgear spent most of 1972 hanging in my locker. The glasses got bent and re-bent until they resembled no longer their orginal hexigonal shape. And the dresses?... well, my dear mom just kept making them--I must say now that they were quite beautiful--even trendy and cool! I'm afraid I did not apprecite them as I should have at the time for you see--as lovely as they were--they were not 501's!
By the middle of 7th grade, I was miserable. Too proud or too embarasseed or too foolish to talk to my folks about it, I just carried on thinking that somehow I was "less" than everyone else.
Then, out of nowhere... something amazing happened. It started in HomeEc, (a class in which I truly was a failure :). Normally grumpy Mrs. S stopped by my table and said, "You are doing a fine job at that cutting Lisa, such a nice straight line." I thought she had confused me with someone else.
I wrote a poem for English. After reading it Mr. P asked me to stay after class.
"Lisa, are you sure you wrote this yourself? Did you copy it from somewhere? Did someone help you?"
"No sir, I wrote it."
"Can you write another, this is marvelous!"
The baseball coach stopped me in the hallway, "Lisa, we need someone smart and fast to keep the scores for the baseball team, I think you could do it if you put your mind to it, will you come out and try?"
Mr. L in Lit Class said to me, "The wisdom of all the lives that have been lived before you is found in the pages of books Lisa. They were written just for you." I believed him and so I read. I still believe him.
We paid $3 to disect a pig in science class. When I finally cut into mine I got sprayed by formaldehyde and just about threw up, this brought about laughter and applause! Miss S came beside me and while holding my forehead over the dustbin said in a very soft voice, "Don't let it bother you, you were made special Lisa and that wasn't an accident." She never commented on it, and never mentioned it again. I never forgot.
Things were changing. By the end of 8th grade, I had sung in the talent show and we almost won, kept score for baseball for two seasons, worked in the cafeteria-a great job in those days, got hit in the back of the head with a discus during P.E.-not everything went perfect ;). I won the coveted Creative Arts Camp Scholarship-thanks to the principal, Mr. P, who saw something in me I certainly had not. With my English teacher's help and encouragement I had written poems and stories for literay contests. I even sewed a peasant blouse I wore to school--at least one time! :)
Another new town for our family that year, and a new high school. But I was ready.
I remember all those words clearly to this day... as if I could hear them played back from a recording. There were many other words too, not so encouargaing--and sometimes more influential--but they were drowned out by these! I am so thankful for the teachers mentioned here. I often think of them and just wonder about them... They are a few of the many people who have spoken words of "life and encouragment" to me along the way.

Ephesians 4:29 is probably one of my life verses and I just realized it and why recently. It's because it's truth has been so much a part of the shaping and refining of my life. That's who I want to be too... one who speaks "that which is for the edification of the moment" everytime! Sometimes though, that's confusing, because the truth spoken in love is often correction, or warning. It's not all just, "you can do it, you can do it--- let's go!" Sometimes it's, "Hey, I realize you think you know where you are going, but you're a little close to a dangerous edge. Please step back, and think about it." Words like that were spoken to me by two of my aunts at a crucial point in my life. It's largely because of them and that crucial direction change that I am on the road I am today.
So! It's Thanksgiving and I just want to say thanks. Thanks to the LORD for thinking of me when He made the world. Thanks to little old Miss Paddock who knocked on our door and invited my family to chruch when I was little. Thanks to the people who spoke "the wonderful words of life" that introduced me to my LORD. Thanks to every tired teacher who took the time-and there have been many, thanks to every loved one, especially Mom and Dad, who took the chance to love and wound me, thanks to every person who spoke words of kindness, encouragement and edification along the way. And LORD, thanks for letting me be the voice of encouragment-the voice of life- to others.
By the way, I attended public school all of my life. Many of my teachers loved the LORD and were used of Him in my shaping lives for eternity. Many of them loved me. Thanks especially for each of them.
The Pictures:
1.) 1971, 7th Grade (Sec 1)
2.) 1972, 8th Grade (Sec 2)
3.) 2009, Giving A Lecture In Huge Auditorium In A Medical College In China (not surprisingly I am telling them that they are valulable and were made special, and that it wasn't an accident!)